3. Attraction – Making Her Feel a Spark (10-30 Minutes In)

“Women are drawn to men who possess qualities that signal high status, social proof, and emotional strength.”

Key Goals in This Phase:

  • Create emotional spikes (teasing, push-pull, storytelling)
  • Use Preselection & Social Proof (Show you’re desirable)
  • Avoid over-investing—make her work for your approval
  • Playfully challenge & qualify her (“You’re cute, but I don’t know if we’d get along yet”)

Practice This:

  • Develop 5-10 teasing & push-pull lines
  • Use Preselection (Show interaction with other women)
  • Work on tonality & delivery to avoid coming across as needy